The perception of LGBT+ parenting has over the years only shifted slightly and many families still face discrimination and isolation either directly or indirectly. Many parents and carers face having to continually ‘come out’ to health services, agencies or education, in regards to their family structure or in response questions like ‘Who is the parent?’. The route to having a family therefore can be difficult at times however this is not without it’s reward. Thinking of your specific route is important and something not to be taken lightly. Talking to friends and family about starting a family can be so beneficial as they will be the people their to support you when you have or are placed with your child/children. Talking to other people who have chosen the same route to parenthood is also beneficial as they will have some top tips or be more knowledgeable about specific routes. Its important to talk to other LGBT+ parents as they may have experienced similar situations to yourself. It will also be important when you have your children as this will help them not feel so isolated and be able to form their own peer support.